And weekend is here

Hey there, its weekend here ;)

There is something about the weekend which makes everyone so happy. For some its the joy of sleeping 2 days without any restriction to wake up, some feel happy because they don't have to go to office or school, some are happy because they got a reason to drink till late night, some are happy that they don't have to bath ;)

Well looks like everyone has a reason then why it feels like that still there are few people who feel more comfortable on weekdays rather on weekends, for them the weekend is like a sentence which they have to serve after every five days.

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It occurs to me that these kind of people are the ones who don't have any friend to go to with, doesn't have any girlfriend or no interest in doing anything new. They got bored of sleeping and drinking like a tanker on weekends and doesn't have anything new in their lives to do. They are not even interested to make new friends or find a girlfriend. They are alive on earth just because their breath is ON.

Don't forget to share which kind of person you are and what do you suggest for the second category described here in the comments below.

When you meet an old friend after long time

Hey there, I am back with my chat.

How you feel when you meet an old friend after a long time and so many canceled meetings. Its like yeah finally we did it. It feels like an achievement and when you can feel connected to them it's even better. I had a similar kind of experience this weekend.
Met a friend after almost 6 months of planning, although we live in the same city nearly 6miles away. The irony is we meet around 2-3 times a year. Sometimes I am busy or sometimes they don't want to meet or they have something better to do. 😉 In both the cases, we end up canceling the plan.

We met with the plan for lunch. and end up having evening snacks together, went to this nice place where we had board games to play. we tried playing something new but ended up playing the old classical childhood game.
Had a fun time. I suggest you all go out often, meet your old friends, make new friends. Try out with acquaintances give them some time to turn into friends, It's a slow process, it needs time and patience.

Don't forget to Share your experience in comments below.

All set, Get ready to get HURT in 3 2 1...

why it happens that you know that u will get hurt even then you keep going that path and ultimately get hurt.
The only answer I can come with is you are a fool. Why go to the way where you know only pain can be your friend. But it's not always logical or rational we can think, Sometimes Always emotions come in between and screw your life up instead of helping you.

I can clearly recall an incident where a friend used to like a girl in my office. I showed him some team outing pics and he went flat over her. I set up a meeting for them, they met. It was all going nice till one week then the girl said, see I think you should know about it since we belong to different religions there is no chance of us getting together, I think of you as a friend and please don't ever think of me of anything else than that. The boy said yes on her face but behind he was knitting plans to propose her. He discarded his plans and thought let's be only friends since she is a nice bubbly girl I have nothing to lose by being a friend.

She again said the same thing after few days "since we belong to different religions there is no chance of us getting together, I think of you as a friend and please don't ever think of me of anything else than that". The boy told her, there is nothing like that and if you have got a hint from the way I talk or treat you, I am sorry I never meant it and it's pretty clear from my side, we are friends.

They met, went out together, saw a movie everything was going smooth. The girl knowingly or unknowingly again said the same thing to the boy. The boy this time got irritated. He said when I have told you clearly that I have none of those intentions they why you always keep poking me with the same rant.
The girl went silent as the boy's pitch was a little high. She got a little scared as she has not seen him in this avatar before. She took a moment and said, I have heard that boys get feelings very quickly for girls, I can understand from your behavior and your talks tell me same that you like me. I just don't want to keep you in any false impression and don't want things to get spoiled between us hence I tell you about the same thing again and again.
This time boy decided that he is better off alone and will not be with the girl to increase her insecurity.

I was watching both of them going through the pain as I understood both of them liked each other up to an extent but none of them was ready to take the next step.

The pain is inevitable in such cases and we prepare ourselves enough not to get hurt, but as I said in title we are getting "All set, Get ready to get HURT in 3 2 1"

when a friend says "I dont need you"

It is a really tough time when you have to reevaluate the things going on in your life and you have to come up with a conclusion that involves people in your life. But what is more thought provoking is the feeling when the only person you have in your life and you are ready to go any level just not to make them hurt and they come up one day and say "I don't need you, please stop bothering about me". Awesome, isn't it?





Think of the situation which made them say it. Can't think? Think harder.

Its simple, something which you are doing or saying is hurting them badly and over period of time they want to stop that hurt feeling. Even thought you don't have intention of hurting them you might be doing it unknowingly. Or there can be a flip side to this coin as well. May be they are so much hurt and shattered with something happened to them that they want don't want to tell you at the given point of time. What would you do?


As a person you have 2 choices, First continue annoying them till they accept your friendship or everything between you shatters. Secondly, move away and be an acquaintance throughout your life and keep thing what would have happened in this case and that case.


Stay Human, Stay Warm. My wishes.
Enjoy your life, you only got one.